Tinder’s new height filter may seem like a harmless feature, but it reflects a growing problem in modern dating: the overemphasis on superficial criteria. At The Matchmaker UK, we’ve seen firsthand how this checkbox approach can contribute to disillusionment and emotional fatigue. Height has long been one of the most exaggerated traits on dating profiles, and formalising it as a filter may further reinforce unrealistic beauty standards - often leaving shorter men and taller women overlooked before they have a chance to connect.

While dating apps like Tinder aim to streamline the search for love, they are also businesses that balance user experience with commercial goals. But real compatibility can’t be reduced to height or job titles. It’s about shared values, chemistry, and emotional alignment - things no algorithm can fully capture. As more singles tire of gamified swiping, personalised matchmaking is rising in demand. It’s time to move beyond tick-box dating and rediscover the power of authentic, human connection.

A breakup can feel like the end of the world — a sudden loss that leaves you reeling, questioning your worth, and unsure how to move forward. But it’s also the beginning of something new. With time, self-care, and the right support, you can heal. At The Matchmaker UK, we understand how deeply a relationship can impact your identity and emotional wellbeing. That’s why we’re here to guide you through the healing process — not just to move on, but to grow stronger and more confident in yourself. From personalised matchmaking to emotional coaching, our services are designed to meet you where you are and help you rediscover the joy of connection when you’re ready. Healing from a breakup isn’t about rushing into something new — it’s about rebuilding with intention. And when the time comes, The Matchmaker UK will be by your side to support your next chapter in love.

Love bombing is now officially recognised by the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) as a form of coercive and controlling behaviour—a powerful step forward in protecting individuals from emotional abuse. At The Matchmaker UK, we welcome this change, as it brings long-overdue awareness to a manipulative tactic that often hides behind the mask of romance. Love bombing involves excessive affection and attention early in a relationship, used to gain rapid trust and create emotional dependency. While it may initially seem flattering, it can quickly evolve into a cycle of control, withdrawal, and emotional instability. This CPS update validates what many have experienced but struggled to name. It also signals that emotional manipulation deserves legal recognition, not dismissal. As matchmakers committed to emotional wellbeing, we prioritise educating our clients on red flags like love bombing—because safe, respectful love should never come at the cost of one’s boundaries or mental health.