Photo is of Asher Keddie and David Wenham star in ITV thriller Fake (Photo:: Lionsgate/ITV)
As professional matchmakers, we’ve heard our fair share of extraordinary love stories — some beautiful, others heartbreaking. But few series have captured the darker realities of modern romance quite like the new Australian drama Fake that has just aired on ITV. Based on a true story, it shines a spotlight on one of the most insidious threats in today’s dating world: emotional deception.
Fake follows a successful woman who becomes romantically involved with a man who appears, at first glance, to have it all — charm, charisma, career, confidence. But as the layers slowly peel away, it becomes clear that not everything is as it seems. While we won’t share any spoilers, what makes the series so compelling is not just the unravelling of lies, but the emotional manipulation that takes place beneath the surface.
The show strikes a powerful chord because it reflects something deeply relevant in our world: how easy it is for people to pretend to be something — or someone — they’re not. In today’s hyper-digital, appearance-driven society, where online profiles can be meticulously curated and social media offers endless tools for self-presentation, the line between truth and fabrication can blur frighteningly fast.
At The Matchmaker UK, we understand this better than most.
More Common Than You Think
People often assume that deception in dating is rare — something that happens to someone else. But in reality, it’s far more common than many would like to admit. Whether it’s small white lies about age or occupation, or more serious forms of deceit like fake identities or hidden relationships, the pressure to impress in the dating world can lead people to present false versions of themselves.
Unfortunately, when those lies are uncovered — often after emotional bonds have been formed — the impact can be devastating. Clients who have come to us after such experiences often express feelings of shame, anger, confusion, and self-doubt. They question their judgement, their trust in others, and sometimes even their worth.
And that’s why our work is so important.
Truth is Our Standard
We don’t rely on algorithms or anonymous apps. We work personally with each and every client. Our team conducts identity verification, background checks, and comprehensive interviews. We look beyond the surface, ensuring that those we introduce are exactly who they say they are. It’s old-fashioned matchmaking with a modern sense of responsibility.
This is not about snooping — it’s about safeguarding. It’s about creating a safe, respectful space where authenticity is not just encouraged, but required. Our clients come to us for peace of mind, and we take that responsibility seriously.
Unlike anonymous apps or unregulated platforms, our approach is highly personal. We know every client by name, not just by profile. We speak with them, we get to know them, and we build long-term relationships rooted in trust. Our goal is not just to facilitate matches — it’s to ensure those matches are based on truth, mutual respect, and real compatibility.
Coaching for the Wounded Heart
We also recognise that some clients come to us in a fragile place. Many have experienced traumatic relationships — some marked by manipulation, emotional abuse, or betrayal. We never minimise those experiences. Instead, we offer support that goes beyond traditional matchmaking.
Our coaching services are tailored to each individual’s needs. We provide:
- Trauma-informed relationship coaching
- Confidence rebuilding sessions
- Bespoke emotional support to restore self-trust and clarity
Our team is trained to work with people who’ve experienced emotional harm, and our coaching is grounded in empathy, respect, and practical guidance. We help clients identify unhealthy patterns, set boundaries, and most importantly, reconnect with their own worth.
Because before you can find real love with someone else, you need to feel whole and safe within yourself.
Real People. Real Relationships.
What Fake highlights — perhaps better than any fictionalised series in recent years — is the emotional cost of dishonesty. It’s a cautionary tale, but also a call for greater transparency in how we form romantic relationships.
At The Matchmaker UK, we’re answering that call.
We stand for truth, integrity, and meaningful connection. We believe that real love can only thrive in an environment of honesty, openness, and mutual respect. And every process we’ve put in place — from verification to coaching — is designed to foster exactly that.
So if you’re tired of the games, the ghosting, the guessing, and the “fakes” — we invite you to experience something different.
Something real.
Get in touch today to learn more about how we can support your journey to genuine connection — with someone who is exactly who they say they are.